I love my fiance' dearly and want to have a great life with him. I've always been very attractive to him physically, but lately, I'm not. He's grown his sideburns long and they look terrible. I tried really hard to talk to him about it in a very nice way, but he doesn't seem to care if I find them repulsive or not, his son doesn't like them either, so it's not "just me". I am trying very hard to get over the way he looks right now, because I love him either way - but it's really turning me off every time I look at him, and knowing he doesn't even care that I feel this way doesn't help. I'm afraid I'll damage our relationship by not being as sexually active as I normally am (I'm a bit of a freak!), but I also can't feel like I'm lying and all turned on when I'm not. What should I do???
2007-04-30
10:38:54
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