I had an ob appointment today and it was the first time that I met the doctor since my own doctor doesn't deliver babies. My fiancee was working and this was the first doctors appointment that he's missed. So they started asking me questions like if the father was in the picture, and I said yes, and that we were engaged, and she asked 'how do you feel about that?' Like I was only going to marry him because he was the father of my child or something? They asked where he worked, what he did at the firm, and everything. And then they said 'because you are only 20, we want you to know that there are programs to help with costs of diapers and formula' even though they know I plan on breast feeding. I said 'No. Thank you, we are fine' and then they were like 'are you sure? don't be afraid to ask if you need to' I thought it was very rude that they assumed just because I am young that I am irresponsible. They know that the pregnancy was planned. Should I have said something?
2007-04-30
14:03:15
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