This is my challenge- I am an adult, and live with my Mom and step dad. Among other reasons, I have OCD, which has delayed my ability to gain independence. But now, I am at a point where I can venture forth on my own.
My parents are good Christian people, and I love them very much. But they are unwise with money matters. I have had to loan, give, and grant them a lot of money recently, since my Mom is involved in a lawsuit with her former employer. She also has Carpal Tunnel in both wrists. My step dad makes very little income. I am looking for a new job.
How can I assertively approach my parents, and tell them that I am going to start saving my money in two months from now? I need to, for many reasons. I need to get married to my girlfriend, I need to move out, I need a new car, etc.
They keep telling me and lecturing me about how "It takes money to live." I realize that, but I need to start saving funds for my future.
How can I assertively explain my needs to them?
2007-04-22
09:15:42
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