3 weeks ago my husband beat me up. Police were called, him and i now both of us have a domestic violence order on each other. (yes, go figure Australian laws!) He has made no contact at all with his children, phone or by friends or anything which is really upsetting the kids. According to rumours around town he is going totally on himself being the victim, making out I am crazy, mad, etc etc. That "she drove me to it", dont speak to her!
Ok, I understand that what he did he is responsible for his own actions and I am so over him (although unfortunately, my heart still loves him) . but what I cant understand is
"why did he do this to me?" when he always claimed he loved me? even on the day it happened?
and why has he not wanted any contact with his children? even though he always claims to have been so family orientated? I have tried to make contact through the police as I cannot find him and have no idea where he is.
What turns someone to be like this? any ideas of why
2007-04-17
22:57:02
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Jo
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Marriage & Divorce