I have remained friends with my ex since she ended things 3 mths ago.
The relationship was very good, we talked of moving in etc. On 2 occasions, totally out of the blue, she said she was unsure about us. The 1st time, within 3 hrs, she said to ignore it and was feeling down. The 2nd, she got upset and she said she felt she held me back.
When she ended things she was depressed, her Dr prescribed prozac & counselling. She took the meds but refused counselling, said she wasn't depressed & blamed the relationship, ending things. She has since told me she was depressed but it was coincidence.
She also has had:
- Anorexia & Bulimia as a teenager 10 years ago
- Self harmed as a teenager
- She had a 2 year relationship with a woman 4 yrs ago, despite saying she is not bisexual & has said she will never be with a woman again, and never had been before.
Was she just fed up with me? Was depression a factor?
Should I try and help or get her back? I do love her.
2007-04-13
04:21:01
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bepositive1976
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Marriage & Divorce