I have been married 8yrs and things have never been great. I have just tried to make him happy by giving in to what he wants. 5yr ago we both were injured in a bad accident and he promised he would change and be more involved. Not the case- he is the only child and very much about his parents. I have a great job and work all day, come home and do everything-house,yard,children's activities,etc. And he goes to his parent's 2 nights a wk to eat and do work there and every Sat is there and some Sundays. And now he wonders why I am so distant and bitter! I have fallen out of love and I am just there doing it all! All of this led me to open up to someone else and they tell me that I have become cold and independant, do not know what real love is like and that I had my kids to have unconditional love! I think they are right - but I know leaving will be hard because of kids. I love this person he gets it and says stay for kids, he wants me but is married to and is staying because of kids?????
2007-04-13
04:09:51
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jenga4fun
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Marriage & Divorce