My fiance and i broke up after almost being engaged for a year. (a week before our wedding last dec my family canceled it, and we've been tryin to save up for another one). He broke up with me, but he still calls me many times a day from work, and still tells me he loves me, and that he wants to get back w/ me, but that he needs some time. He said he wants to get his life in order and wants me to work on mine. He's about $4,000 in debt right now with credit cards and bills, and just got a new job so he wants to work 9-9 every day (temporarily) and doesn't think he could balance working long hours and a relationship with me right now. Also, i'm in college, so i'm busy also. I just don't know if he's trying to break up with me nicely (but he still says he wants to be with me) or if he's not sure, or if he really wants some space for now to get caught up. Are finances really that important to guys that they'll put relationships on hold? should i wait or move on? what could he be thinkin?
2007-04-13
10:11:21
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