I just ended a year-long relationship with a compulsive liar. He has many amazing qualities...he's goodlooking, smart, funny, outgoing, fun to be around, and likes a lot of the same things as me. But turns out he was cheating on me nearly the entire time, and telling the most elaborate, believable lies to cover it all up. When I would confront him with indisputable facts, he'd still lie his way out of it. I put up with it for a year because I kept hoping I could change him, and because he does have many good qualities. I tried several times to cut off contact with him, and every time I do, he immediately sucks me back in.
My question for anyone else who's been in this situation is CAN compulsive liars change? Or is it completely hopeless? When he attempts to start talking to me again, do I confront him on the fact that he's a compulsive liar? Do I give him ultimatums? It just seems like a hopeless situation. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
2007-04-09
07:20:41
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Monica S
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