I have a really great friend, and she and I have been friends for years. You couldn't ask for a better friend. However, when I like a guy, they tend to like her instead. In fact, most of the guy friends I have, I have because they had a crush on her and ended up meeting, and becoming friends with, me in the process. I told myself that they like her for the same reason that we're friends, and if I enjoy her company I'll get over it and realize that our friendship is above all this guy stuff. It's not like she's mean, she's very mature about all of it ( she never returns their advances, and makes it clear that she's not into them like that). For a while I did really well, and when we went out, I enjoyd her company and just settled on the fact that I could get guys later. However, a guy I liked showed up one night when we were hanging out and made it quite clear that he was there for her. I was mad, she kept asking if I was OK...I don't know how to be better about all this?
2007-03-28
18:41:45
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Alice
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