I'm 32 and have an wonderful husband of the same age.We've been married for 7 years and he's truly exceeded all my expectations of married life.He's always told me he would do absolutely anything for me but if I were to ever cheat on him,that'd be a deal breaker for him.My husband travels every few months on business leaving me alone for 1-2 weeks at a time with nothing to do but shop and socialize.He's always had an issue with me having my ex boyfriend who was at one time his best friend in my life.I chose my husband over the ex and that effectively ended the friendship.I've had no contact with the ex out of respect for my husband but when the ex recently invited me to attent a fundraiser with him while my husband was away I couldn't refuse.With the help of a little champaign I ended up sleeping with the ex.If you were my ex and you cared about what I though of you,would you tell my husband anyway just to rub it in?
2007-03-28 18:42:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you kidding? I'd wait until his next trip and ask you over for champagne.
2007-03-28 18:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all i'm not gonna insult you (at least in here). But don't expect I'm gonna be nice either. What you did is totally wrong! I feel sorry for your hubby. You're definitely in big trouble! Don't blamed the Champagne, your ex or use your hubby gone away for weeks as an excuse or reason. It is you the one that's deserved all the blamed! You shouldn't be cheated on him. Relationship is base on Trust, Honesty and Respect with each other. Without that all will fall down. One thing for sure is your ex gonna blackmailed you if not, if he is such a noble guy (which I don't think so!) He will tell your hubby (which I think he will get punched in the face which he deserved that too! LOL) I just think.. Maybe.. Just maybe that your ex is so piss off with you - who picked his best friend as your hubby and he using you to get back and ruined your life the way you did to him. SCARY THOUGH!!! All you got to do is diappeared from both of them. Just don't kill yourself! OK?
Feels like I'm watching a movie though...
2007-03-29 02:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by I, Idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn, I can feel the sting and I don't even know the guy. He gives and does everything he can, while you shop and socialize living this perfect life and you still cheat on him. Yes he would tell your husband, their not friends anymore, and he only stands to benifit from this. The X probably had the whole thing planned just waiting for you to fall in. Or he won't tell and blackmail you into sleeping with him some more, lol. Nice situation, might as well tell the truth; and live with the concequences.
2007-03-29 01:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think what you done was a horrible thing to your husband! Regardless of the champaign... You obviously need to make a choice between your husband or your ex. This is not fair to your husband. If i were him, i would immediatly kick you to the curb with no looking back. If he has any balls that is exactly what he would do. you don't deserve him...
2007-03-29 01:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely would tell, without any doubt at all. I would tell, nit to rub it in, but to show him that he chose very poorly in picking you over my friendship, and to save my former friend from your evil clutches.
There's the honest truth
2007-03-29 01:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Very likely. Expecially if he can't have you again and has nothing to lose. You screwed up and have sacraficed your current life. Feel sorry for your man who also is going to have his life completely change for something you did.
2007-03-29 01:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by EWSA_Tricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wont. Why should i tell your husband, so that you will not see me anymore while your husband is away on a trip again?
2007-03-29 01:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by alain 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with your husband. You would want the same in return.
If your not honest, this is the beginning of the end of your marriage........your terrible!
2007-03-29 01:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by USMarine Dad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is obsessed with you he will, but if he knew and excepted it was a one night thing he wont. but just dont do anything to pi** off your ex or he will tell
2007-03-29 01:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by Rodney, j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't but if I liked you alot I might use it to get closer to you. Anyways what you did was pretty stupid.
2007-03-29 01:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by krumpmaster terrell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋