OK. So my girlfriend and I have been going out for about four months already. And lately I've been noticing that as the months go by, and the more I get closer to her, I get more and more protective of her; most of the time possessive. Things like her not talking on the phone with me for a night will make me doubt her loyalty to me, and I get jelous really quick.
I know she gives me her 100% percent trust, but I, on the other hand, give her 99% trust, and 1% doubt. And she and I both know that I have this trust issue, and it's affecting our relationship right now.
She wants to counsel me herself, that way she can earn my complete trust. However, I am really stubborn about her counseling me, because I think she'd only be bias and it'd be unfair for me.
So what should I (or we do) to save this relationship from ever getting worse? I really love her to death, but sometimes my ego is too big to control...
Should we get counseling, instead? What are things that might help us?
2007-03-26
00:50:17
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armageddon1024
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