ok my parents found out about me dating my girlfriend and since they dont like lesbians they might be thinking about taking me out of my school district and getting a restraining order put against her... i dont want that to happen cuz i love her and i'm not letting her go but my parents wanna put me away if i dont i need advice on wat i should do
2007-03-26 00:50:33 · 10 answers · asked by ford_girl<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nikki nikki nikki...........Your parents are in shock.they thought that you would bring a boy home not a girl.
I assume you are an early teen GIVING AGE HELPS A LOT.
In my experience 25%of the girls who were say 15 years old at my school ( admittedly it was a long long time ago) went through a stage where they thought they were gay.
IT passed and they all married and had children.
Splitting friend up isn't good because they are removing the temptation and creating in your mind an area to contest them on which most teenagers do.
YOU say NO and they go out and do it just to spite you.
THINK seriously about your life and your future.
If you decide you want to keep this girl as more than a pal then sit down quietly and discuss it with your parents.
NO doubt you have shattered their dreams.
BUT YOU CAN WORK IT OUT WITH GOOD COMMUNICATIONS
2007-03-26 01:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your parents to go to a psychologist with you, a family one. let them think its because you feel you need help. once you get into the reason your there.. the Dr. might be able to find a way to make your parents see why and how it is that you love someone of the same sex. be yourself throughout life. my favorite thing to live by is "be true to others but first yourself. this is best. be this and in life you will have all the rest'
2007-03-26 07:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by licherbox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you need medical counseling. Believe me, these problems have surfaced only in the last ten years or so. This is because of girls like to be boys and boys like to be girls. It is a universal problem. I long for those days when girls used to be soft and sweet smelling and fun. Today's girls have lost their femininity due to excess weight lifting, exercise, etc. See some of the athletes and you will know what I mean. Why cannot they be females with feminine touch. I hope I have made my point.
2007-03-26 07:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by tnkumar1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your school concellor as soon as possible. She/he will help you to overcome your parents pressure on your relationship. Being a lesbian is nothing wrong at all but
your parents are concerned for you so it isimportant if you can arrange for your parents to see your counellor after you have had a chat. Also talk together as a group, you your parents and your councellor..
This applies for legal age.
Your feelings are important and no one likes to feel blocked out and ignored..
2007-03-26 07:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you are under 18 yrs old..your parents are responsible for you and know what they want for you so you can't win...do you want to get put away? Other wise if you are 18 or older move out...also oncce you are of age you can do what you want to..with who you want to..you are their child...they are the boss until you are 18 and as long as u live in their house....
2007-03-26 07:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety if you are under age {i'm assuming you are} there really isn't anything you can do about what your parents do...i know things are tough right now i have a friend who is going through this with thier daughter..you must understand they worry about you is why they do what they do...so why not just tell them its over until you get of age to do what you want because trust me from seeing it happen things can get really ugly....if you need to talk more feel free to mail me
2007-03-26 07:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by sonialynnl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a minor kinda puts you at a disadvantage. they control your life. the only thing you do is run off with her but i dont think that will work that well. sorry
2007-03-26 07:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant control your feeling but u really do need to think about weither she is important enough to ruen your relationship with your parents and even your future
2007-03-26 07:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by shaenaz m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just like men....They'll be more girls. So as long as your living in your parents house respect their wishes and don't see her. Once your done you will have more freedom to do whatever you please.
2007-03-26 07:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old are you guys? Maybe that's it and you should wait...
2007-03-26 07:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by Aaliyah 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋