We have been broken up for over 2 months, and once I got over the initial pain of breaking up, I have been doing fairly well and despite his asking me to come back, I have remained strong and not gone back to him because I know he would ultimately hurt me again. What is hard is sometimes I get so upset because I think about all the good times, the times where I was sure he was the one....sometimes I just wish I could go back to him and have the relationship that I have "dreamed up" in my head with him. But I know it won't be like that, and that he'll just go back to his old ways and I'll be right back where I was 2 months ago. So my question is - why do I still think about him? This morning I woke up and was so depressed. Why is it so easy to remember the good times but not the bad ones? The worst part is we work together so I see him constantly...so it's not like I can do the no contact thing...How do I let this go and realize that I am so much better off with out him?
2007-03-22
01:45:17
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