We have been broken up for over 2 months, and once I got over the initial pain of breaking up, I have been doing fairly well and despite his asking me to come back, I have remained strong and not gone back to him because I know he would ultimately hurt me again. What is hard is sometimes I get so upset because I think about all the good times, the times where I was sure he was the one....sometimes I just wish I could go back to him and have the relationship that I have "dreamed up" in my head with him. But I know it won't be like that, and that he'll just go back to his old ways and I'll be right back where I was 2 months ago. So my question is - why do I still think about him? This morning I woke up and was so depressed. Why is it so easy to remember the good times but not the bad ones? The worst part is we work together so I see him constantly...so it's not like I can do the no contact thing...How do I let this go and realize that I am so much better off with out him?
2007-03-22 01:45:17 · 6 answers · asked by UGAFan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because u still love him try goin out with some friends or get yourself involve in some activities
2007-03-22 01:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by yurrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch...i kind of know what ur talking abt...it hurts a lot and u try to tell urself ur better off without him but u cant help needing that person cause he makes u happy..Maybe u still think abt him because u want to be happy...and he can make u happy..but sometimes that's not enough right...u can't base a relationship on that and in the end it won't work out..give urself time...
2007-03-22 01:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...AND u work together....thats horrible...but to me...the only thing u can do at this point is not to hold a grudge...act..no BE normal around him...itll help u to see him more as a friend quicker than if u were to hold a grudge against him and avoid him...and keep your eyes open to other men that might be interested in you...cuz it seems like you're fixating too much on him...he hurt u b4...and yea...stats are..he will do it again...even if he doesnt...u wouldnt look at him the same again...ull begin to wonder what hes doing when you're away....if trust is lost in the relationship...its doomed....from the (re)start....hope this helps you...good luck....other fish in the sea...
2007-03-22 01:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by unpredictedmystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same position exept he lives in my apartment complex!! and goes to my school
once a dog always a dog remember that, karma will get him if you gte back with him you'll just let him know see i can get this chick she will always come back to me!!! let him see you strong make him get on his knees and beg for you back girl!!! dont give him what he wants make him work for you if he really likes you and wants you back he'll work for you
2007-03-22 01:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by newyorican chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It call love and all the good time but git over it .It will get better
2007-03-22 01:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know maybe you still have feelings for him im the same way with my ex which i broke up with a few days ago but i keep denying it.
2007-03-22 01:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋