My fiancee and I have been engaged now for a little over a month. We both have been seeing each other for nearly a year, and have become very involved with one another by living and doing everything together for quite sometime.
Now, the only problem we are experiencing is that we cannot decide a date and venue. I want it one way (in my church, with a small amount of family and friends), as my parents (the groom's) have decided to help us finance the wedding, as my bride-to-be's cannot.
My friend is a wedding planner, and really wants us both to work through this, but she suggested a minimum of a six month engagement so we don't feel overwhelmed, and have the time to work on it.
This will be my first marriage and her second marriage, and I want it to be a special day, but without too much "fluff", she wants it to be in the USVI without any friends or family just the two of us, and I want a church wedding. Am I being unreasonable? Any and all help is appreciated! Thank you.
2007-03-19
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