Girlfriend and Flirting?

Question

Recently, like this st. patties day my GF and I threw a party at our APT. While there some friends came over that I had not seen in like 5 years so they really were not friends... Anyways I am 20 and shes 23 and when she was getting toasty I saw her shake her boobs in front of one of my friends (with clothes on) Although it was not that big of a deal, I still talked to her about it later, and she said she did not think anything of it... I asked her if it were me doing it to another girl, and she said Oh my god I am sorry I did not look at it that way... I am sorry... Well, my dilemma now is... Can a girl like that be trusted to go to parties with out me? I am a very easy going guy, but this made me pretty upset... mainly because I never thought I would possibly think twice about her... I love her, that is certain, and I know she loves me back. I just ask, if I am being controlling? Am I wrong to have talked to her about something so small? What should I do?

Answer 1

Sometimes, innocent flirting reminds women that they are still attractive to men even though they have a boyfriend or husband. It's really not a big deal until the clothes come off. I wouldn't take this seriously unless you have evidence of her pursuing love interests other than yourself. Girls will do this sort of thing sometimes as an ego boost, and then they will go home and love their man that much more. It sounds like you took the right steps by talking to her about it, but I wouldn't worry about it because she seems to understand your point of view. I think that you should just relax and take comfort in the fact that your girlfriend loves you.

Answer 2

I agree with Also Ran.. however, you do have to realize that guys do this too. When guys can other girls sweethearts, cuties, etc... this is their way of "flirting". They may think that it is innocent and they're just being nice... but it does make them feel insecure. Good job though callin your girl out when you aren't fully sure if things are all ok... just make sure if you're uncomfortable about something you talk to her about it.