Ok, i have 3 bridesmaids in my wedding. I'm getting married on july 7th and 1 of my bridesmaids told me last thursday that at the end of may she is moving to alaska!! WTF??!! I was so mad i didnt even know what to say. I've had time to think about it and she says that 2 weeks before my wedding shes flying down here for it and to be apart of everything but i dont see how this is gonna work. First and foremost, she doesnt have the finances to do this because at the moment she doesnt have a job, and what do i do?!! I dont want to worry the entire time if shes gonna make it and i dont wanna take the risk of saying, ok i'll trust u to be here, when i know that she probably wont and i'll end up with 2 bridesmaids and 3 groomsmen, a $160 dress that i'll have to pay for, and the feeling of being let down. I just dont wanna take the risk, yanno? SO can someone help me tell her nicely that i dont want to take that risk? I dont want to hurt her feelings but i dont wanna take that risk. HELP!!
2007-03-08
05:22:32
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