Here is my history:
Married 4 years, never really been all that married :( ... Lived seperate lives more or less... no intimacy, have gone long periods (as long as a year) without s#x.
She has totally become my roomate / sister / freind. While I do care for her I am not remotely in love with her... We have gone through about 25 counseling sessions with multiple counselours. We have tried to do daring things together BUT it is always forced and painful, no ebb no flow. She is in SEVERE denial, still thinking we can "work it out'... I wish I felt the same way. Just really depressed looking for some advice... Also she is in her mid - 30's and in wanting children and there is NO WAY in heck, that I would bring a child in to such a un-healthy relationship.
2007-03-07
04:22:17
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Marriage & Divorce