First of all, leaving my job is NOT an option. I am really well paid, work from home and have huge financial responsibilities that I carry on my own. My skills are also too specialized to be able to easily go to another local company.
Here's my story: six years ago, I got a crush on my boss. (I know, how old am I - 12?) A year later, we started an affair. We kept it a secret for three years because he was the boss.
Two years ago, he broke up with me. I'm still not over it - largely due to the fact that I still have to see him for work. He started dating a woman at the same level as him in the company, a few months after we broke up. They made it an open relationship, since neither was the superior of the other. I fekt so humiliated and "just not good enough".
Now they are talking about getting married and having kids. Ugh. My heart. My ego. Here's the kicker:
He still gives me things, calls me, responds to my advances, touches me...what's with THAT? How do I cope?
2007-02-13
00:28:50
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