We've been married for almost 12 years. We have never been over active sexually. I have always wanted more, and she has always not really been interested. We have 2 kids, and after the second was born, sex came to a screeching halt. It's been about 3 years and I love my wife, but am frustrated. At this point, it's not a matter of spicing up our sexlife, it's a matter of finding the on switch and turning it on.
About 2 years ago I started hitting the gym 5 days a week. I fugured that I would eliminate her excuses. Well, I've gotten myself back into fantastic shape with excercise and diet. I look and feel great, but she's still just not interested.
At times, it feels like the stress of everyday life has gotten in the way. We live a pretty good life, get out without the kids from time to time, but I don't even bother asking anymore because I know the answer. I would never in a million years consider leaving her for this reason, but any other advice is welcome!
Thanks,
EZ
2007-02-12
03:19:46
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