When a person leaves a spouse, children, everything they built with the spouse, their financial security, their self-respect, their friends, etc. because they decide they are no longer happy with their marriage - and they chose to be with the person they had an affair with - will they find the happiness they were looking for? Do they ever look back at their married life (one with no abuse - but one in which things got boring) and wish they would have done things differently? Worked a little harder? I am just trying to understand how a person who walks away from everyone and everything they know - including children - come to terms with what they have done or how they can look at their new life and say - okay now I am happy. What makes them happy??
2007-02-09
02:44:27
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Marriage & Divorce