I found myself in family court a couple days ago, facing my ex and his new family. (He is still with the woman that he left me for) We are not exactly on friendly terms bc he has not seen his son in almost 5 yrs and lives only mins away. Our son, who is now 12, calls my b/f of 5yrs "daddy" now.
In the yrs since we have been apart, I have become a born again Christian...and am extremely happy with my life, but I felt the overwhelming need to write my ex a letter. In the letter, I have forgiven him for the pain that he caused me, because I no longer feel anything for him but pity.. Pity that he never got to know his son and how much of a shame it was.. And that it would be up to my son when he was older if he wanted to forgive him or not..
I was not nasty in the letter at all, it was a straight-forward letter.. Why did I feel the need to write this letter and would it really be a good idea to send it??
2007-02-02
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