I’m 32yrs from Africa and she is 28yrs from UK. We were both engaged in a relationship as fiancé & fiancée and I left my country to join her in UK.
In UK I felt in love with her, cause she was my first fiancée and before to that, I never dated or talked with girls and neither had a girlfriends, so frankly speaking I did not have an experience on what is love, feelings, attraction, excitements & romance, and for which all I wanted to share/show/experience with her, but it seems that she was ignoring & not spending time with me and always left me behind in every corners…
She (fiancée) already knew, quickly in two (2) months that I am in love with her….
But after passing of 3 to 4 months in UK I could not able to understand/know her whether she (fiancée) loves me or not, I always having hard time with her and whether did she had any feelings or attraction on me or not.
And naturally I got fears and always felt afraid of her and her dad & mum as she always speak sharp tone to me and complains to her parents that leads to a big fights.
And I finally broke and ended the relationship because I was too scare & afraid of her and I got that obvious thinking and feelings in my mind that if I marry her (fiancée) and I would not able to get an erraction(hard penis) in the first sweet night…and as she will goes and complain it to her mum or family members..??
Dear all I am asking you if doubted or misconception by her & her family what would be happen to me in term of my manhood/dignity & respect? Will she always going to tone me in entire life that I(you) failed in the first night.
Do you all thing that I did the right thing to break/end above relation. And do you still think that at my this age of 32yrs I will able to get another sweet girl and at what age she should be…please help me here…I am very sad and I feel that I shouldn’t love at first place???.
2007-02-02
21:11:49
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