I’m 32yrs from Africa and she is 28yrs from UK. We were both engaged in a relationship as fiancé & fiancée and I left my country to join her in UK.
In UK I felt in love with her, cause she was my first fiancée and before to that, I never dated or talked with girls and neither had a girlfriends, so frankly speaking I did not have an experience on what is love, feelings, attraction, excitements & romance, and for which all I wanted to share/show/experience with her, but it seems that she was ignoring & not spending time with me and always left me behind in every corners…
She (fiancée) already knew, quickly in two (2) months that I am in love with her….
But after passing of 3 to 4 months in UK I could not able to understand/know her whether she (fiancée) loves me or not, I always having hard time with her and whether did she had any feelings or attraction on me or not.
And naturally I got fears and always felt afraid of her and her dad & mum as she always speak sharp tone to me and complains to her parents that leads to a big fights.
And I finally broke and ended the relationship because I was too scare & afraid of her and I got that obvious thinking and feelings in my mind that if I marry her (fiancée) and I would not able to get an erraction(hard penis) in the first sweet night…and as she will goes and complain it to her mum or family members..??
Dear all I am asking you if doubted or misconception by her & her family what would be happen to me in term of my manhood/dignity & respect? Will she always going to tone me in entire life that I(you) failed in the first night.
Do you all thing that I did the right thing to break/end above relation. And do you still think that at my this age of 32yrs I will able to get another sweet girl and at what age she should be…please help me here…I am very sad and I feel that I shouldn’t love at first place???.
2007-02-02 21:11:49 · 4 answers · asked by Vips_5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She sounds mean spirited, your lucky you left and didn't marry her. NOW get out there and meet a NICE woman!!....you will :)
2007-02-07 13:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me if your having doubts about a relationship the nget out just like you did. Now you love that other girl so marry her. Just remember, listen to me and everything will be alright.
2007-02-10 07:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by stockkiddan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did the right thing. Just go out have fun and meet new people, you never know just might meet the right one for you.
Find love is not always easy.
2007-02-08 07:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Stac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wasn't right for you,be strong and don't give up, you will eventually find someone who is more compatible with you....
2007-02-08 02:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋