we were together two yr split up for three mounths get back together and find out she got pragnat the first mouth we were apart by someone else.
2007-02-02 21:12:28 · 13 answers · asked by elorzakevin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if he really loves her he will except her and her child and love her without resentment and love her child as if it were his own. Thats what real love would do. You have to realize yall were broke up, she didnt cheat, you never know when you will get pregnant, and God has a plan for this child or this wouldnt have happened. There is a reson for everything.You never know what this child may bring into your life someday. Always look for the positive in any situation you find yourself in. and the positive will surface.And Pray about any unsure feelings you have. Good Luck to the both of you and the child.
2007-02-02 21:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by genaNga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's all up to you. Do you trust her to be faithful? Can you handle looking at a child that isn't yours, who may be a constant reminder of your breakup, and her ability to move on so fast, for the rest of your life? If you want to be with her, you will have to accept this child, love this child, and treat him or her with the utmost respect and care. It's never the child's fault, and he or she shouldn't suffer because of what the mom did and how it made you feel. You'll have to suck it up and deal with it. That's alot of responsibility for a man who isn't the father. Do you think you can handle that, long term? If you can, and you really still love her and want to make it work, then that's your choice. But if you don't think you can handle it, just leave now and make a clean break. Good luck.
2007-02-03 05:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by Nev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine stayed with a girl who was pregnant to another man, everything was going great for them they bought a house, then discovered they had different ideas about raising the child, She always had the authority, he was not the real father, if you do this make the commitment legal and adopt or else perhaps reconsider.
2007-02-03 05:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on this is not good, 2 years? she didn't care 2 shits about you. She met who knows how many guys, banged them and then did not use a rubber. She played you dude, and l would not stand for it. She probaly only told you she was phucking because she got knocked up, other wise she would have took it to her grave.
2007-02-03 05:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u can accept the kid, carry on the relationship
if u think u can't, dun go any further
its more ez for gal to accept guy with kids than guy to accept gal with kids
have a good think over before you decide as this might be the bomb in ur relation in future
2007-02-03 05:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her, that is some dangerous territory. I've been there. Don't get involved. Save yourself a world of troubles.
2007-02-03 05:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by 444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to love this girl anymore coz she hates u.
2007-02-03 05:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hurt but show must go on,find other girl,good luck.
2007-02-03 05:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by ALOHA BOY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave your friend after that completely
2007-02-03 05:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by bshr19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat the baby as ur own i guess... abortion is cruel
2007-02-03 05:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋