Ok..sorry its so long. My bf and i live about 2 hours away, known each other over a year, we met online, and things grew from there...i went to see him in December for 3days, but it was difficult because he was working at the time and got to spend time together mainly in the evenings. And he is 22 turning 23 on 13 feb...anyway im 24 turning 25 in may. He stays with his parents, they are quite strict and wont allow him a gf or allow anyone to stay over he says untill he turns 25 or something. So he sneaked me into his room for the 1st night but next night he said time to meet the parents but he couldnt introduce me as his gf and had to make up a story about me going 2 work for the holidays by him and needed a lift with him.. So the last night i sneaked in and stayed with him in his separate outside room. Ok so i dont go into so much detail here, i asked him why he doesnt say who i am to his buds and that, his reply was kinda like, if it was not so deep between us it would be easier to say. I still dont really get it. He tells his friends im just a bud. So i thought maybe anyone could give some advice or opinions on the situation. We dont chat everyday because he is always working and is tired. I know thats true because i was there when he had to work. Please i would appreciate any advice on whole situation. Its confusing and worrying me a bit. I trust him and he trusts me. He has no other gf etc. He is not hiding me but just not showing everyone (i understand the parents part) how he really feels but when alone together we are like we have been together forever. Just confusing...
2007-02-01
21:20:15
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