I am a father to a 15 year old boy. His mother and I split about a twelve years ago, and have never lived together. we verbally agreed on sharing his care. 50-50, about 3 years ago.She has since moved twice, and now refuses to let me have any involvement within his life, bar 1 evening per week, for 3.5 hrs, and alternating weekends or alternatively getting back with her, which is something that I am not prepared to do, after serious contemplation. She takes him off to visit members of her family and friends, and everytime I try to schedule any activity with him, she claims that he is too busy. I have been told that I should wait until he is 16, before allowing him to make his own mind up, but by then, knowing her, she would have brainwashed him into thinking that I don't care about him, or want anything to do with him. We have already tried going to court, of which they refused my application, due to the lies that she told forcing my son to side with her or not being allowed to go home
2007-01-24
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