I mean if you have been in an exclusive committed relationship for almost three years & going in to the relationship you both defined the parameters, that you wanted to get married eventually, but you knew that there were impeadmnets IE both had young kids, crazy ex's etc. If after being patient (agreeing to wait until after the holidays to tell kids etc) then being patient through unexpected crisis, Ie death in immediate family, marriage of a child, business falling apart, etc. you find that you are still in love but that you seem to be making 90% of the compromising. you are no further towards a wedding date than ever. You do notice tha in the past year he has finally made significant changes to include you and your kids more into his life IE you are now a major part of his older kids lives, have full access, key and open invite to home car office etc. he still drags his feet when it comes to his young child age 11 , not spending time together, it is more like you live separate lives
2007-01-21
06:32:53
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Marriage & Divorce