gonna keep doing it if you take them back?
2007-01-21 06:33:50 · 42 answers · asked by Mrs Moo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reading all your answers has been a big eye opener.You have all said the same thing. I knew it deep down, just needed some encouagement. I cant decide a best answer, coz they r all great. Thanks guys xx
2007-01-21 06:59:38 · update #1
Cheatting is a harm full thing to do to others!!
If one cheated more than once and then twice..well this person will always cheat!!! Move on.. your worth more than the other person who cheats on you!
2007-01-21 06:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Pete 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say yes sorry, my partner of four years has been caught out a few times not cheating in the phsysical way but by text and internet I no longer trust him and cannot see a future for us anymore.If this had been phsyical I would not have hesitated in giving him the elbow the first time he did it as hard as it would have been, now I have respect for myself I won't even tolerate the way he has behaved and it is the end for us I'm afraid if there is no trust there is no relationship.
2007-01-21 06:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by unhappy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, if you are even CONSIDERING taking this asshole back, DON'T!!!!
Once a cheater, always a cheater, and if he has done it twice now, and you keep taking them back, he will continue this behavior.
He doesn't respect you, walks all over you, knows you will always forgive him so he can have his cake and eat it too. Do not give him the HONOR to be called your boyfriend again, you are too good for him and you deserve to be treated much better.
Let this scumbag player continue on his path of destruction, and don't let him play you anymore!! Haven't you heard Carrie Underwood's song "Before He Cheats..."
"And the next time that he cheats, ohhhh you know it won't be on me."--don't let him do it again, move on and find someone else!
Good luck and God bless!
2007-01-21 06:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say there is a strong possibilty. Once in a moment of madness and they realise what they have to lose can be acceptable in some situations. But twice is seriously pushing it and you are right to have doubts. If I was in that situation that is the way I would think. Surely you deserve better than this?
2007-01-21 06:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here' the answer to your question ! If someone cheated on you once...and you forgave him and he cheated on you a second time...are you willing to risk your self respect trusting a liar who doesn't deserve a 3rd Chance ??? .or are you addicted to the pain & suffering that comes with the disrespect he shows you ? have lost your ability to think clearly...this dog either deserves you or not....what do you derserve ? Unless, there's a devine intervention, or this guy has a spiritual wakening sooner or later there will be a 3rd, 4th, 5th time... he will cheat....again...I think you know you deserve better....good luck !
2007-01-21 06:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. im afraid so. no matter how much they say theyve changed they never do...it hurts like hell, dont put yourself through that again. they are not the right person for you if they disrespect you in this, or any, way. its hard to get over someone you love but please try and come away with your self esteem intact, if you do that now you have more of a chance than if you do it when the person ypou love has cheated on you countless times.
good luck
2007-01-21 06:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by hardheartedharlot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be yes... chances are they will possibly be completely faithful with the next person but with the one they cheated on they most likely will continue to cheat.. they see that it's ok to cheat when the other person continually takes them back and they also see how pathetic that person is for letting them continually hurt them... If i'm seeing a guy and he cheats on me once, that's it and my self respect is not gonna be second to him... If I allow him to do it again then I need to just be ok with it because i'm saying that it's ok :) :) :)
2007-01-21 06:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um they dont want to be with u, dont respect u and they are saying this by cheating on you. Just becuase you like/love someone doesnt mean they have to love you back, dont ask the world what you already know but are afraid to admit...you are fine without this person in your life...let go and stay strong
2007-01-21 06:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'm sorry to say. It's time find someone that will be ture to you.This old woman has seen alot of young ones hurt. But there is true love out there. Never let anyone fool your heart. True love will not cheat.
2007-01-21 06:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by LDJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me! I had this happen to me and it wasn't pretty. I learned my lesson and kicked them to the curb. Honestly, if this person cared for you and respected you, they wouldn't cheat on you. So, why give this person a second, third, whatever chance if they are going to keep screwing you over. Just because you love them doesn't mean they have to love you back, that's what mi madre said to me. Sooo I wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-21 06:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋