What is love? I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months (wonderful man) and we are currently living together (forced by the fact that doing the long-distance thing was hard for both of us). But I just no longer feel the same for him as I did before. There are times when I want to say that I love him, and there are times when I don't want to see him because I need space. I know most people would say; you just know when you love someone, etc, but what about when your feelings keep changing? And does the fact that I no longer (ever) have the feelings experienced at infatuation mean that I will never feel that for him again? What I feel now is calmer and safer, albeit very hard to describe.
Two things I know for sure: it hurts to think of a life without him, and he is the motivation for me to do things I never thought I could.
2007-01-19
05:25:17
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