ok I have been dating this guy mike for almost two years. And about 6 months ago i ended up breaking up with him and going out with another mike! lol confusing. But ne ways he cheated on me and really felt sorry but that does not take my pain away. ne ways i ended up going out with my boyfriend again and have been together ever sense. The problem is i never got over the other mike and i saw him at a party. We really connected and he asked me to be his girl again!!!!!!!!! what do i do i really like him but im with someone else! please some one help
2007-01-19 05:24:20 · 18 answers · asked by crystalsbabigirl4eva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you kidding me? Is the relationship with the "Old Mike" so bad that you'd just up and leave him for a dog that cheated on you?!? examine what you really want out of life, then re-examine it. the grass always looks greener on the other side, but if you look more closely you would see that its just grass. Besides you have time invested in the "Old Mike" are you REALLY ready to toss all that away? think back on all you and he have done together. that is two years that you can't reclaim. don't let it be all for nothin'.
2007-01-19 05:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by afreeca812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Let the cheater go!! Just Rememeber once a cheater always a cheater. You will feel better with time. Say with the origanal Mike, if hes good to you and you like him. You don't want to hert this guy again he may never forgive you. And if you go with the cheater you are gambling to get burned again.
2007-01-19 05:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the first Mike treats you good and you have feelings for him I say stay with the 1st. The second one CHEATED!! Never a good thing...But if you don't have feelings for the 1st, break up with him because thats not fair to him! He deserves to be with someone who feels the same for him as he does for them.
2007-01-19 05:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Souns to me like your with the first Mike out of convience. It's easier to fall back into an old relationship because it's comfortable. You already know who you would rather be with. Go for it, and quit wasting your time!
2007-01-19 05:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo! Answers Chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with the one u left( mike#1) instead of mike#2., because mike #2 cheated on u, and u left mike#1.
2007-01-19 05:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by lovinthelife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just comes down to which one do you like more? Or maybe you should just take a break from guys and clear your head and if you still feel the same about either of them, try again.
It's just about how you feel about each of them.
2007-01-19 05:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with the one you care more for or find out how they feel about you and what i mean is which one really cares for you who will always be there for you no matter what hope this helps Good Luck!
2007-01-19 05:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are with someone at the moment. but ask him if he would like to be ur friend. I hope this helps you. if you need more advice email me at helping_my_pastor@yahoo.com
2007-01-19 05:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by Reverend (Rev.) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on u !!!!!!!! do not go back to him once a cheat always a cheat u need to stay with ur boyfriend if he is loyal then stay!!!!!!!
2007-01-19 05:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by cc1872 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some says once a cheater always a cheater but i dont believe in that listen to your heart and be with who ever it tells you to be with.
2007-01-19 05:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by rebecca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋