9 months ago, my husband was caught having an "emotional affair" with a lady that he formely worked with. They became the best of friends, started meeting for lunch, then heavy passionate kissing... no actual intercourse. I think that it would have come to that, but he was caught too soon. The problem is, he never really gave me any details of the affair. He would occaisonally answer a question here or there, but I am still in the dark about so many things. I might have been able to handle that if every couple months, I find out something he has kept from me, or even something that was a total lie about the affair. He say's " I'm done with that, it is behind me, and I don't ever want to talk about it." "let it go". I tell him that he doesn't have the right to make that descision, I am the one that needs the closure. I offered him that if he would just give me 1 hour to ask him questions, I would never mention it again, UNLESS I find out that he lied. HELP!!
2007-01-11
23:05:40
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shedan157
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Marriage & Divorce