my boyfriend (of a year) and I live together, and well lastnite as we were about to go to bed, my ex called, ok before u go what? my ex and I are still friends, we remained friends after the relationship failed to work about 8yrs ago, he was my first love. And well in my books he holds a special place in my heart. But friends is what we remained, in fact we became better friends than lovers. After the call lastnite ( which lasted for about an hr - with my boyfriend starring me in the face) I became defensive( as he says) and told him we are just friends. My boyfriend says he's not bothered about the call, because he knows we are just friends and has accepted it. What did bother him was my reaction after the call....he says I became defensive, and I'm saying I only said we were just friends just to assure him. I was not trying to hide something let alone seem suspicious of something. Was I wrong? And how do I win my man back?
2007-01-11 23:04:14 · 2 answers · asked by Thato 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
friends or not it was disrespectful to your boyfriend, and although he didn't have a problem with it, becoming defensive only re-inforced it. To make it up to him you will have to compose a dear john letter to your friend saying although you will always be friends, at the present time it is not appropriate to communicate, especially for hours on end. Make sure your boyfriend sees it, and do a lot of sucking up, maybe a nice dinner or a make up present like a 60 inch HD LCD Flat panel TV with a 5 speaker bose surround sound system
2007-01-15 20:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Chad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was not wrong!!! Trust me girl I'm real good friends with my ex boyfriend. Don't worry about it if your man can't accept that, **** it you don't need him. He has to understand you.
2007-01-12 02:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lil' mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋