My family is encouraging me to get married to my fiance, but the dark side to it is he has a serious drinking problem that he struggles to control.He is unpredictable. I feel they want me to marry him just to say I am married. I feel a part of myself not being satisfied with him because he doesnt have much. My ex is a manager at a grocery store, he has a nice vehicle, and he has financial stability. I dont really respect my fiance as a man because he is somewhat dependant on me. He took me to his parents alpaca ranch for Thanksgiving to try to impress me but it is THEIR ranch and money. Money isnt everything, but his step dad was cracking jokes about him filing bankruptcy & basically being a looser. He didnt even defend himself & I really lost respect for him after that. I still miss my ex alot but he is a newley wmarried now. He is newlywed 6mos,but he talks about coming back to me. I dont want to marry to make eveyrone else happy & I dont respect this man & I still love my ex.
2007-01-10
23:23:35
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