Hi, i am a 24yo female, have 2 boys, oldest is almost 3, and second kid is one years. When i gave birth naturally to my first child i never cried, i felt utterly empty, this sounds sad i know and i too think this is strange, my husbands mom came to stay for a few months to help me, she done everything,, bathed him, carried him, slept with him, everything, i feel like i never had that "bond" with him and i still DONT, yes i do love him, i feel very over protective but i just dont feel close to him. At first i thought it was nonsense to think such a thing, but then i had my second child and i cried as soon as i gave birth and the bond was there, and i am ever so close to my second child,,,i cant fathom this out at all, i feel very guilty and i try to treat both of them the same, but i know i feel differently towards both of them, i would rather cuddle and play with my second than my first. i know am probably gonna get a lot of criticism for this. really this is bothering me.
2007-01-09
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