I raised them alone for the most part. I always give nice gifts and Christmas; I remember their birthdays. Most of the time at Chistmas, they give me nothing. One says, "We spent on the kids this year (their kids)". The other one says, "Sorry Mom, I didn't get you nothing." I live paycheck to paycheck too, but I always manage to remember them. The one only calls to raise hell about how miserable his life is; and the other one never calls at all. I take their kids to watch one Saturday overnight a month. Other than for my grandchildren, they would have nothing or little to do with me. I am truly brokenhearted. I have debated on whether just to write them off by treating them the same way, for example at Christmas time. I thought because I worked so hard to raise them and teach them respect for others, that they would grow up to make me proud. I am disgusted with both of them.
Anyone have any suggestions?
2006-12-21
01:37:27
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SUZANNE M
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