My heart is shattered. She is 30 now and I am 33. Our marriage started to become routine after our two boys were born, ages 7 and 9 now. We moved to a very remote area of central Oregon 5 years ago to manage my fathers cattle ranch. After living here about two years she gambled about 40 thousand dollars on our credit cards while visiting here terminaly ill mother in California. I felt like she was doing this as an escape from dealing with her mothers illness. We had to file bankruptcy and my trust with her became low. She had to get a job after that driving the school bus and working in the school kitchen. She just told me 5 weeks ago that she has no feelings for me and does not want to work on our marriage.Then I found out that she is having a relationship with a single school teacher. I had to go to the ER for emotional shock and now I sit in a deep depression. My father said divorce her and I did, it was a very fast divorce. I still love her so very much, did I do the right thing?
2006-12-20
17:40:07
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shawclint
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Marriage & Divorce