I am currently engaged to a great guy EXCEPT for one thing that has been causing me to re-think getting married. The plain truth is he's tight with his money. Christmas is just around the corner and he hasn't bought one present for either me, my mother or my son. He's currently unemployed but receiving a paycheck and is making roughly the same as I am (employed). He says Christmas is not about presents and he doesn't have the money but he doesn't buy birthday presents either (he will buy something for himself if he wants it). I've pressed the issue with him and have asked if he is going to buy presents but he keeps telling me will, eventually. I still have his parents to buy for but am unwilling to do so if he doesn't buy for my side. His tightness is not just limited to holidays and birthdays but to who drives, paying household bills, buying food, etc. Am I being too picky???
2006-12-19
04:32:43
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