We spent christmas, and thanksgiving with them last year and this year we decided to spend it with my side of the family. I tried to make it better by trying to open up to my mother inlaw and letting her know that we don't want them to feel ingnore so they don't think I am trying to take their son away; but all she did was blow me off. My husnad tried to back me up but he only made a comment or two and stayed quite. After that, she just kept on talking about other things. Then in conversation with another family member, this family member tried to say that the reason why my husband is sick (gallstones) is because someone is upsetting him. (saying I upset him) I had to say something and I did. It is just so hard, I don't even want to to visit them anymore. My stomach goes in a nut and feel that I will always be judge no matter what I do. But I have to go because it is my husband's family. I just get SO stressed and even upset, that I take out on my husband.
2006-12-18
20:08:21
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