We have been married for 8 years, 3 Kids. I thought things were great but he was a little down around thanksgiving. Then I pressured him to tell me what his deal was. Friday night he told me he is tired of us and no longer loves me & wants a divorce. "It happens" he Said. I asked all the typical questions (Why, Was it someone else etc) He said no one else and he didn't know why he felt this way & said he has been telling himself for 6 months he wasn't feeling this way, but yet he went through all sorts of trouble arranging a special birthday for me hotel and all. I cried, did all the usual. It was like he wanted to see my responces. I freaked out, went upstairs & started getting things together like (passwords for accounts etc) He asked me to come to bed and said that could wait. He waited in a chair until 3 am for me. Then he said we may have a chance if I stay.Then he has cuddled & become intimate with me, and every day since and done the same, but still says I don't know whats next.
2006-12-13
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