I don't want to get back at him, but i feel like i want to get back at him, and am afraid i might do something that i will regret, how do i get over that feeling. I want to try to trust him again. he was in an online/phone relationship, says they haven't met in person, but he called her more than he called me, called her baby in emails and told her he missed her. I also found out he has profiles in adult sites, that part of it he denies and says that they are spam emails. He says he is willing to do whatever it takes, and i've tested that by telling him i want to go through his emails with him, get rid of certain female contacts, go through his phone bill, not forever, just for a while so i can regain some confidence in this relationship. Now i need to know what is actually reasonable to ask of him, and what might actually make me feel better. And if i do that if i am just asking for him to make more calls from public phones, get another email address, etc.
2006-12-11
08:19:14
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Cyndi Storm
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Marriage & Divorce