I have a boyfriend of 9 1/2 months. We've been friends for over a year before that. We're in our early 20s.
We talk about marriage all the time and our future kids. However, little things about our future seem to clash. Like he wants dogs. I don't want slobbering pooping tearing things apart machines. He wants to be able to pee in the shower. I don't wanna shower in that. He wants to wear shoes in the house. I don't want whatever he stepped on outside (poop, mud, gum, etc.) all over the house. I know these are little things, but I can't stop thinking about it.
Is it too early to even be thinking about these kinds of things in the future? Should I worry about this way later? I really don't know if he's downright serious about that kinda stuff. I don't wanna surprise him and bring something like that up outta nowhere.
I know it's normal in a long term relationship to talk about the future. And compromise is important.
I'd just like to hear what you guys think. Thanks. : }
2006-11-30
19:29:48
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