We have kissed, but no sex yet. He tells me how much he likes me, how attracted he is to me, etc. and he makes it VERY clear that he wants a physical relationship ASAP!! The other day, I discovered he was still active on the dating system; this was purely accidental, and I don't intend to continue checking up on his status as a member. I told him this and he said that, since he is not sure how I feel about him or, "if I will be there for the long haul" he is keeping his foot in the dating pool. I told him that, although I wouldn't ask him to cancel his membership, I wouldn't have sex with him as long as he was looking at other people to date. Now, it has become a focal point; he keeps pressing the sex thing and I keep backing away. I don't want a lifetime commitment from this guy to have sex with him, but I would like his focus to be on me (at least for the short term) if we are going to have an intimate relationship. I'm a bit confused. Any advice??
2006-11-27
00:21:00
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Susan P
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