My husband is being treated for depression. He is a recovering alcoholic/drug addict. He has an addictive personality. He is/was addicted to porn, mostly kids. I caught him looking at a video of a girl, 8-10 yrs old, and that (2 months ago) was the beginning of the end. It brought back all old memories of my own sexual abuse when I was 10. I had gone to a shrink to get over it. He wants to help me get over the feelings of my past, he says. I believe he does in his way. His way is to pressure me into sex. It disgusts me for him to even touch me. He knows ALL of this. He keeps pressuring. I am going to file for divorce AFTER the holidays, but I need advice on how to tell him there is no hope for us. I need to make sure he understands that it is MY feelings that are pushing me away because I can no longer deal with the past. He has researched suicide in the VERY recent past and that scares me. Had I known about his kiddie porn before we got married we wouldn't be married.
2006-11-22
03:12:54
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