So we've been divorced for about ten months now, and yes we do have two children together. But often times when he calls here it's not to talk to the children, it's to "chit-chat" with me. I've no idea how to handle this at all. My boyfriend gets upset, and while I know I should tell the ex... if it's not about the kids then don't call, I am worried that if I say that he will stop seeing his kids. He does have a habit of being very inconsistent with them and taking it out on them when he is mad at me. So on the one hand, I don't want to tell him to leave me alone for fear of pissing him off and interrupting his relationship with his kids, but on the other hand I really have nothing to say to him and don't want him calling here like that to talk to me about things and I really hate that my boyfriend is being upset by this, but I don't blame him, I'd be upset as well.
2006-11-17
00:56:19
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