I think I may have used my words in the last question a little too loosely. Im not exactly repulsed by my husband but rather "put off" by my husband. I hate the thought of having to have sex with him because (as many of you quessed) sex=pregnancy, and I DO NOT WANT another baby. But I think the bigger contribution to my feelings is because of the lack of respect and hurtful words my husband say's to me when ever he gets mad. He accuses me of cheating (which I have NEVER), he calls me fat (only when he's mad of course), and does not respect anything that I do, whether for him, the family, the kids, the house, the bills.. ANYTHING! Thankfully our marriage has never been physical (fighting wise) but that old saying "sticks and stones may brake my bones but words will never hurt me".. is a horrible horrible LIE! I think words hurt the most! But overall, (even though all your answers were VERY eye opening) this problem IS bigger than I had imagined, and I agree with all of you.. I need help
2006-11-14
17:52:41
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Heather K
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Marriage & Divorce