I've been w/ my husband for 6 yrs now. Just a few mths after we got married, he told me something that really hurt me. You see I've always had a low self esteem when it comes to my appearance. I've been criticized by almost everyone I know from a very young age. I told him of this and how it's affected me. Then 1 day out of the blu as I was just minding my own bizness, he came to me and said, "U have an ugly face!" I responded, "Gosh, ur so mean." I thought he was just trying to be mean, but he responded, "It's the truth!" I went to bed in tears. How could someone who made me feel so beautiful after all those yrs make me feel so ugly just after a few words? That night, I stopped loving him. I still care for him, but I was no longer in love with him. I wanted him to say he was sorry and that he really does think I'm beautiful. He never did even when I told him how hurt I was. Sometimes I want to leave him, but I jus keep thinking that noone's gonna love me more anyway.
2006-10-21
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