that i had never broken up with my ex.bf and wish i was dating him and not my current bf. I feel so sad my ex.bf and i broke 7 months ago and i still am in love with him he was my first everything and i miss him desperatley. I just came to the realization that my current bf and him look alike and act alike but are not exactly the same.What do i do?
2006-10-21 07:27:36 · 11 answers · asked by Jackie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you do when 7 months have passed and you still love an ex.?How do you get over them?
2006-10-21 07:28:32 · update #1
I did take time it did not help
2006-10-21 07:30:50 · update #2
you need to look at the reasons you 2 broke up. and not kid yourself on them. if things don't work out with the second guy i would take some time alone to let yourself get over the grief and loss of losing a relationship. don't get into another one so quickly. allow yourself as much time as you need. talk about it with your friends and maybe even your parents. no matter how old you are. they have been through many trials and tribulations in their lives and have more to talk about then you may realize. keep a journal. write down what you go through on a daily basis. and pray about it. ask for help to be able to understand what happened and how you can change your own behaviors. cause in the end all you can do is change yourself and no one else.
2006-10-21 07:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are coming from, I am in a similiar situation and I think about My EX a lot 4 some reason, maybe b/c I miss him and knows that someone has him which he use to be my pride and joy
I try not to compare him 2 other guys but it is hard, I want to give new guys a chance, It is frustrating but true-time tells all things
But it can also be up to you to let him know, he could be feeling the same things and if so Yay, hopefully you guys will have a happy ending, but if he does not feel the same way then you are wasting your time and energy on a person who does not feel the same way and truthfully might never feel that same way again
I have that feeling what If things went this way with me and My ex, again I do not know what life will be, just be patient and whatever is for you is for you, just try to open yourself up to new guys and experiences
Best of Luck!!!!
2006-10-21 14:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you shouldn't be with you current bf, it can only lead to hurt for you and him,talk to you ex and if hes not interested now move on or try to get over him before you start another relationship
2006-10-21 14:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with... i mean you broke up with your ex for some valid reason... something must have happened.... and you need to make a decision cause it's not fair to the one you're with now.... if ur still thinking about your ex... hope that helps some.....
2006-10-21 14:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by Maggz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being fair to yourself or your new boyfriend. I don't think you took enough time to get over your ex before starting to date this new guy. I think that you should be on your own for awhile and sort out your feelings.
2006-10-21 14:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop using your current bf. No matter how he looks or what he does he will NEVER be your ex. Get over it.
2006-10-21 14:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is going to hunting you to the rest of your life this situation, and memory. No help - we have to accept the losses.
2006-10-21 14:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cOME ON BY NICE, DON´T PLAY WITH OTHER PERSON FEELINGS,
For the to do is stop doing that and tell your ex what you ar feeling right now.
GOOD LOCK BROKEN HEARTH
2006-10-21 14:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by arqui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling it sucks.. I cant say cause I dont know..
2006-10-21 14:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not get back with him...
2006-10-21 14:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋