The man is 12 years older, married twice, was her councilor at a "not to be named" youth club for 5 years (age 13-18). The club was very active with outdoor activities, camping, mountian climbing, hiking, and boating. She spent one weekend a month and 6-8 week long trips every year with the club for 5 years. He is the only man she has ever loved or dated, she moved in with him at age 19 and has been living with him for the past 18 months. She always had a crush on him. They had a great friendship, but after she turned 18 and was attending college she told us the relationship had changed and she moved in with him. My wife and I do not believe any person with the responsiblities of guiding young minds should ever use that influence to build a relationship for the future. We never want to see this man again. I have no intentions of going to the wedding. Do I try and get past this or do I continue to make a statement that the relationship is wrong and I do not approve?
2006-10-17
01:36:55
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