Me and my partner are desperate to have a little boy, We already have 2 beautiful little girls who we wouldnt change for the world,But both times i was pregnant we were secretly hoping for a boy.The problem is my partner wants to try again to see if this time i can give him a boy. But i cant help feeling that we would be acting selfishly after all the chances are 50/50,and if i did indeed have another girl i couldnt face the thought of been disappointed, Because this is a life were talking about.I know people are going to say you should be grateful you have 2 healthy daughters and believe me i am.But this problem has been on my mind alot recently. Is wanting a boy so badly a healthy reason to get pregnant? or will it only cause heart ache and dissapointment.Or do i just enjoy my 2 daughters and except the fact that wanting a boy and only a boy is not a good enough reason to get pregnant???? I would love peoples opinions because i feel like im going around in one big circle.
2006-10-12
09:21:10
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cheekychimp
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